Category Archives: Dating & Relationships

How Do You Know When You Are In Love?

“How can I know when I’m really in love?” asked Ruby, a client of mine. “How can I know if what I feel for Jim is really love or just infatuation? How can I know if this feeling will last?” Ruby and Jim had been dating for 11 months and were considering marriage. Ruby, 32, […]

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Men’s Golden Rule Of Online Dating – Patience | Oasisoflove.com

It is one thing to run a dating service as a source of revenue, but quite another to be interested in the effectiveness of the system. People have taken to online dating like a duck to water. Unfortunately, little innovation exists in the industry beyond the humdrum of message exchanges between members. A dating site, […]

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Men, Women, and Sex

During my many years of counseling couples, I have frequently worked with the sexual problems that often occur in committed relationships. The most common complaint from men regarding sex is frequency, and the most common complaint from woman is lack of emotional intimacy. There is a very good reason why these are the most common […]

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How Can This be a Shocker?

Headline, New York Times: “A Shocker: Partisan thought is unconscious. “The thought process of a partisan being challenged is almost entirely emotional, and there are flares of pleasure when unwelcome information is rejected.” Benedict Carey, January 24, 2006. Evidently neuroscientists using MRI scanners now prove what your mother has always known. Don’t discuss politics or […]

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Hochzeitsstile

Ich habe letztens den Film, “24 Dresses” gesehen, wo eine Frau schon 24 Mal als Brautjungfer eingeladne wurde und bei jeder Hochzeit ein andere Kleid anziehen musste. Ich musste ein bisschen an mich denken, wobei die Tradition der Brautjungfer hier in Deutschland nicht so schlimm und anstrengend ist wie in Amerika. Ich war wie also […]

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Meeting and Dating Asian Women, 3 Myths Exposed

If you’re a man who’d like to meet and date Asian women for friendship or marriage, you’re definitely not alone. The Asian woman, with her beauty and traditional values is very desirable, especially to a society that seems to be losing its way with happiness in relationships. Not many will argue this fact as divorce […]

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